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52 Ancestors #3: Julia Miller Jackson

Julia Miller Jackson

Julia Miller Jackson

This is my grandmother Julia Miller Jackson and I was terrified of her. She was born in Syracuse, MO and lived there her entire life.  I was her youngest grandchild and the one who unfortunately knew her the least, however looking back on it, I am so glad I got to know a little about her first hand,  because as an adult looking back on what I remember I now know that she was a strong lady who must have been somewhat independent in nature and a “do it yourself kind of woman” which is very similar to myself.

There are a few things about my grandmother that I remember telling my friends about when I was a young kid that I thought was “no big deal” until they all started laughing at me. The first thing I remember is that she smoked a pipe. Come to find out years later as a teenager, that was not a very fashionable thing for a woman to do. Secondly, she had no toilet inside her house, until she was finally forced to have one put in by family. Yes, that’s right even in the 80’s my grandma had an “outhouse”. Oh, I so hated visiting grandma every weekend and thinking about how I would have to use the outhouse and that stench.  She also, had chicken’s everywhere, which I didn’t quiet understand, but I sure did love chasing them around. She also had this little dog, named Candy that constantly barked at you if you even came close to grandma. Why was I so afraid of this woman as a child? Thinking back to it, is that she always wanted me to kiss her and all I saw was this old woman who smelled like tobacco and constantly yelled at the TV when wrestling was on. Yes, my grandmother was an avid wrestling fan. Something that still makes me laugh hysterically as I thinking about it today,  especially as I think how Grandma and my husband Kyle would have kicked it off!

Grandma Julia Jackson smoking a pipe

Grandma Julia Jackson smoking a pipe

I wish I could have had an adult conversation with Grandma and picked her brain and got as many family stories as possible. My grandma’s mother was Georgia Miller Roberts and it has been said through family stories that my grandmother’s father was white. This was one of the reason’s why I wanted to take a DNA test to see if who the father is from family stories is true. I have not tied the surname of Keevil to my DNA lineage and I think the family story may be incorrect. Let me re-phrase that, I think the family story got altered throughout the year’s, however, the family story led me to a huge clue and coincidence in my research. I am going on a theory right now, but I believe my grandmother’s father is actually connected to the family of the Keevil’s, but actually the wife of Mara T Keevil, Gladys Hubbard. How did I come to this theory? First, my DNA connects to no Keevil surname, which I find suspicious since it would be from the male line which would have been carried down for many generations. Secondly, I keep coming across the surname Hubbard in many of my DNA connections. What a coincidence that the Mara T Keevil was married to a Gladys Hubbard? Gladys had a brother about the same age as Mara T Keevil. My great grandmother Georgia Miller was supposedly working for the Keevil’s family store.

I continue to keep getting more questions on this quest. I wonder if I will ever find the answer. I think when we look at the DNA of my uncle, it will give me more definitive answers.

IJK

Wounds of Family History

I decided today that I would try and write a blog about something that has been on my mind all week.  My challenge this week was going back to basics and really getting those details that may have been overlooked and making sure that I have all my source citations in place.  As I was confirming and verifying new data, I could not help but to think about my ancestors and how they endured many tribulations throughout their lives just like we all do.  It took me many years for me to understand that life is not always easy and you sometimes have to embrace and/or overcome life’s tribulations.

Growing up I always felt that I had got the short end of the stick by not being raised by either one of my parents.  Part of me buying into that was the fact that people constantly reminded me of it and would tell me that they felt sorry for me.  I took that to heart thinking that something was wrong with me and because of that I felt unworthy.  What I didn’t understand was that those things were out of my control and that as a child I am a product of what was inherited to me and that this would be my own wound that I would have to embrace and overcome in my life journey.  If you would have talked to me about this 10 years ago, I would have still been a mess and had not embraced my wound.  But, this week as I went through each and every one of my family members, everyone I know living and passed has had to deal with much adversity at some point through their lives.  Every person will carry a wound of some sort and many of us will carry the scars, but so much in life is the journey of how we heal.  I wish I could know all those stories of my ancestors and how they made it through.

So now I am pondering how do I cover the many wounds that I know of, as I am a descendant of all different types of family exploits.  How do you explain to people that you might be connected to them because of an outside relationship that someone had with another person?  I am not just talking about things that happened during slavery, but things that happened within the past 40 years.  Are there rules or a protocol in dealing with this in genealogy?  How much detail is too much to detail in telling your family history?  Should I just be a “transparent” family historian and let others draw there own conclusions?  I would love to know what others think.  Please leave your comments and suggestions below. 🙂

Reflecting on 2013 and Setting Genealogy Goals for 2014

I must say that I ended 2013 off with a bang!  I have had two amazing genealogy things happen just in one day.  I have set some very lofty genealogy goals for myself in this upcoming year and I have also accomplished a few things this past year that I had not even set out to accomplish in the first part of the year.

One of my overall goals that I am continuing to work on is setting goals that I can accomplish even if that means setting them on a smaller scale first so that I can work towards the larger goal.  I think sometimes we fail to realize that we can accomplish many things, if we put a plan in place and and execute the plan methodically and as organized as possible.  I listened to a great audio book over the summer called “Chose yourself” by James Altucher and this year began my decision to “choose myself” on so many different levels.  My passion for genealogy was something I decided that I wanted to revisit and immerse myself in this forever addicting past time.  I always wanted to create a family website and I decided to take the plunge and just do it.  I watched a lot of videos on WordPress and how to build websites and shabang!  I did it!  I also had the great encouragement and resources of the many online community Facebook groups such as African American Genealogy and Slave Ancestry Research (AAGSAR), Our Black Ancestry and Technology for Genealogy.  I strongly recommend joining similar groups when you are on your quest for genealogy resources and support.

So although the website was a great success and accomplishment of 2013 I also had other genealogical successes.  One of the most important messages for me to convey to other African American family historians is that genealogy research can be done.  It may be more challenging, but it is possible.  That is one of the great things about being part of this growing community is that you are able to see the success of others and learn great skills.

I decided over the weekend to go back to the “genealogy basics” so that I can truly be methodical and consistent in my approach and make sure I am not missing anything.  I decided to go back through old records and notes that I did from over 10 years ago and see if there was anything I missed.  Sure enough there were some gaps on data I had not completely gathered between the 1870 and 1940 censuses.  There was also some contact notes that I had from connections I made from a distant great,great cousin.  When I talked to my great,great cousin Geraldine Jackson (Hogan) over 10 years ago she was about 80 years old.  I decided to google her to see if she was still alive and if there would possibly be any other cousins to connect with.  Unfortunately, when I googled her I found out she had recently passed per her obituary, but her obituary gave me the names of her kin.  Sure enough I searched via Facebook and already made a connection and many more to come.  Although one door closed, many more were opened up to connect with this family.

The 2nd thing I decided to do in going back to the “genealogy basics” was to start interviewing my family, starting with all my fathers living brothers and sisters.  The first on my list was my Uncle Buster who carries the namesake of the many Herbert Jackson’s that run through my family.  I would have to say that was one of the best phone calls I had all year!  My Uncle Buster is the oldest of all the kids on my fathers side.  We talked for about and hour and it was the most insightful information that I had ever learned about my uncle.  He told me about his service in the Korean War and how he was drafted and how he was one of the first integrated troops in 1952 as Harry Truman was the President who lead the integration of the military.  Uncle Buster stated, “race didn’t matter when you were in combat, that all went out the window when you are trying to survive”. He was a radio guy and the mountain he was on during battle was referred to as K4FM. He also discussed with me that he had a hard time proving his age when he was drafted because he didn’t have a birth certificate.  He was born at home and Dr. Dick (The physician that delivered him) never registered the birth so he had no birth certificate.  This seemed to be an issue at the time with many men who were drafted and enlisting in the military at the time because during the time of his birth most people were born at home.  The military ended up saying that he was born in 1934 but he said that was incorrect he was born in 1932.

See the following links about the Korean War integration:

http://www.trumanlibrary.org/anniversaries/desegblurb.htm

http://www.trumanlibrary.org/whistlestop/study_collections/desegregation/large/index.php?action=chronology

Uncle Buster

When I was talking to my Uncle Buster, I got a completely different perspective on life that I was not initially seeking, but I am so glad for it.  He has opened the door for me to learn about about my fathers service as well as my other uncle’s service in the military.  What a great gift Uncle Buster has given to me.  I look forward to many more conversations with my Uncle and other family members.

This past year I also reconnected with an uncle on my mother’s side as well as made a connection with a cousin on my maternal side via Ancestry.com.  More blog posts to come from this side as I reconnect with family I have never known.

So 2014 is looking to be an exciting year with my new discoveries.  I hope you all follow and share with me your knowledge on my genealogy quest.  Happy New Year!

IJK

The 4 am blog…the start

I started creating my website a few months ago in hopes that I would one day have this great repository of information and records for others who are also doing African American research in central Missouri, and hopefully that will be the case one day. But what I have realized is that this journey/endeavor that I am taking is exactly what it is, a journey that will take time. So I thought a great start to my blog would be to talk about what got me here on “My Genealogy Quest”.

First, I have been a lover of history since I was in elementary school. While most kids hated history class I was enthralled with it at a very young age and asked tons of questions in history class. Mr Kalbfleisch, my fifth grade teacher,was one of my favorite teachers growing up and he inspired my inquisition into everything history. I still to this day love reading and learning about world history. So the desire to know the past has all ways resonated with me.

But more personally, my genealogy quest for me is in hope to understand how my family came to be. I was not raised by my parents but with my Aunt Cathy, my fathers sister, so I was always wanting to know more about my family. My uncle Donald talked a lot about my paternal side and he really set my ground work into motion for my research. His oral history and details was right on target. He had written out our genealogy when I was in my early 20’s and I took that information and spent days in the Kansas City National Archives pulling census records. How exciting it was to get back to the 1870 census and see relatives names who were once enslaved.

So now it is 13 years later and I have dabbled here and there over these past 13 years, but I am now back fully committed to doing my family history to the fullest and breaking down the brick walls. I truly believe it is important for us all to document our family histories and have this information passed down for many generations to come. So this blog will touch on many different genealogical topics as I continue my exploration into my family’s history.

I am currently focusing on my paternal lineage which includes the following surnames: Jackson, Yancey, Keevil, Miller, Fowler, Hogan, Finley of central Missouri. For my maternal lineage, which I have only recently started to researching the following surnames: Brantley, Vann of Tulsa, Oklahoma. My maternal lineage is also linked to the Cherokee Indians of Oklahoma. I have already made a connection to this line and look forward to exploring further. I have also started researching my husbands side who is from Texas and Alabama, surnames include: Ketchum, Hooey and Stringer. I am truly looking forward to the future so that I may one day look back at my blogs to tell the story of my genealogy quest. This is just the start…..

IJK

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